Thought Tools And Strategies

Are you facing a difficult challenge or situation? This may be tough advice to hear, but you need to hear this.

Choose a more positive outlook on your situation. 

I know this is tough to do, especia...

A tip on how to change negative feelings by redirecting your thoughts. Check it out!

You will keep him in perfect peace,

Whose mind is stayed on You,

Because he trusts in You.

Isa 26:3

Where is your focus? On the problem or on the God who fixes problems? Trust Him.

Let go of the past hurts and offenses and focus on the blessing that is today.

The power you have is in the NOW, not the yesterday. Use this fact to gather all of the blessings you have access to rig...

"A dull pencil is better than a sharp mind any day, because a dull pencil doesn't forget."

I'm not sure where I read that quote from, but its truth is profound.

If there is some goal you wish to...

Man it’s tough when things don’t work out as expected!

 - Plans get changed unexpectedly.

- A promise is broken by someone you trusted (or did not trust because of past experiences).

- A desired go...

How Did This Tension Creep Into Our Communication?

You used to have amazing conversations and non-verbal communication with your loved one. But now, just asking for help with the kids or even a compl...

When should we go to counseling?

Disagreements happen in marriage. To believe that one can be in an intimate relationship with another without having an occasional disagreement is not rational. Why? ...

Why not play to win? 

Too many play to not lose. That's being a victim, and what fun is in that? 

Life is like a game. It has rules. It has winners and losers. It also has participants with advantag...

So much to choose to worry about.

The finances. The relationships. The job. The kids. But where has worry improved, or changed for the better, anyone’s situation?

Worry only clouds the mind and actu...